At my daughter’s baby shower, I gave her a quilt I’d spent nine months sewing. Her husband dropped it like it was trash: “Your mom’s nothing but the lady at the coffee shop, honey.” I picked it up and left. The next morning, I called my lawyer. His secretary paled: “Mr. Harmon… you need to come here. Right now.”

Pink, cream, pale sage green, and tiny blue stars, because my daughter Lauren once said no baby should have to sleep in a room that looked like bubblegum. In one corner, I embroidered the same words my own mother embroidered on my blanket in 1987: You are loved before you arrive.

I never told anyone how long it took. Not Lauren, not her husband, not even my sister. I wanted the gift to arrive quietly and completely, the way true love usually does.

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